> Too often for me, I have tried to figure out a solution to a problem, when someone was just trying to let me know how they feel. That's likely not uncommon a

> Too often for me, I have tried to figure out a solution to a problem, when someone was just trying to let me know how they feel. That's likely not uncommon among the readers here, and something I do as well. But I think just realizing that I do it has helped me to stop doing it so much.