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Is it normal in the US that only one in a relationship is working? I don’t think I know anyone where only one in the relationship is working. To me it feels lik
by Thlom 5y ago
Is it normal in the US that only one in a relationship is working? I don’t think I know anyone where only one in the relationship is working. To me it feels like the power dynamics in such a relationship quickly gets really toxic.
- steveBK123 5y agoOutside high cost of living / coastal / urban areas yeah. Even a lot of these people may be two income couples but came from one income households, so they grew up with a father doing nothing/much less around the house and find it normal.
- antisthenes 5y agoWhy is it not normal? Modern appliances make housekeeping basically a breeze. Unless you expect perfectly ironed shirts of something ridiculous like vacuuming every day. Now if children are in play, then it's a whole different ballgame. It easily triples or quadruples the work that needs to get done around the house.
- mensetmanusman 5y agoMany (mostly) women enjoy caretaking more than working for the machine. Definitely higher quality of life satisfaction is possible if the division of labor is agreed upon. Complementary relationships can be far less stressful if each are sacrificing for the well being of the other.
- tsol 5y agoHonestly it's still common all over the world, isn't it?