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The key is to find someone who is actually attracted to you. Not in a "oh I guess I can tolerate kissing you" type of way, but in a "I often fantasize about tou
by scarmig 5y ago
The key is to find someone who is actually attracted to you. Not in a "oh I guess I can tolerate kissing you" type of way, but in a "I often fantasize about touching your body" type of way.
Mutual sexual attraction makes it possible to develop that type of relationship, but a lot of the time men in particular settle for less.
I strongly encourage anyone who doesn't have that type of relationship and wants one to break things off. Even if there's only a 25% chance you think you could find someone like that, it's worth it: it makes everything nearly effortless, and the relationship becomes filled with joy and not drudgery.
- pdimitar 5y agoAbsolutely! I didn't even look that good when my wife found me; I had a belly and my teeth definitely needed attention (and after 32 months of bracers they look better than those of most people I meet nowadays ^_^). She still thought I was the sexiest man she has ever met, and her actions when we were alone confirmed it many times. Without genuine attraction a relationship turns into a transaction. And it starts poisoning the sides involved. I too recommend people getting a bit more courageous and stop settling for less than what would make them happy.