At the same time, the argument could easily be flipped: if one person truly loves another, the let things like putting a glass besides the sink _slide_. It is a

At the same time, the argument could easily be flipped: if one person truly loves another, the let things like putting a glass besides the sink _slide_. It is accepting the other person, with their flaws. If you want to change another person, it's selfish. Furthest away from love as can be.