It's not. It's BS but it's apparently popular view among certain audience (maybe Americans?). Why are you people so cold and calculating when talking about fee

It's not. It's BS but it's apparently popular view among certain audience (maybe Americans?). Why are you people so cold and calculating when talking about feelings? Love and care do wonders and you are able to work everything out almost effortlessly. I have seen it in couples several times in the past and I am experiencing it for over 8 years now as well. With the right person it works automatically and there's zero sense of "sacrifice" there. In 8 years I haven't felt that I've made a compromise that hurt me or her. None of us ever felt like they had to cut a part of themselves to continue being in the relationship. We develop and grow together. I'll never agree to this work-ethic-like expression of relationships. To me you look miserable for even using that framework of a language.