It’s important to note that part of the job is to make it a fun job at the least, and daresay a fairy tale at the most. This includes positive surprises (thoug

It’s important to note that part of the job is to make it a fun job at the least, and daresay a fairy tale at the most. This includes positive surprises (though care needs to be taken), thoughtful gifts (especially on Valentine’s and birthdays), and some element of spontaneity. Flirting is also important. Spontaneity can be considered as part of the job, but it’s important to keep it fun to avoid boredom in a relationship. I’ve read anecdotes that a faithful but boring relationship can cause another partner to unexpectedly break up at the least, or have an affair at the most. I recommend a person to work on making the relationship exciting instead of breaking it off, but as evidence that this is important to factor in, a few anecdotes of people with this problem are listed below: -Thread with humane advice for the original poster: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1qcomq/anyone_in_a_ltr_do_you_ever_get_bored_despite/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1qcomq/anyon... -Thread with not-so-humane advice that I personally disagree with: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/oq7so/after_2_yrs_i_think_im_bored_with_a_relationship/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/oq7so/after_... -Final perspective to establish a pattern, with the rule of threes: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/67df9t/i_29f_ruin_every_relationship_by_getting_bored/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/67df9t/i_29f...