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Another thing many couples miss is positive reinforcement. Many people fall into the trap of ignoring the desired behavior and chastising the undesired behavio
by vmception 5y ago
Another thing many couples miss is positive reinforcement.
Many people fall into the trap of ignoring the desired behavior and chastising the undesired behavior.
Because the desired behavior is so normal and benign to one party. But its clearly not to the other party.
If the glass was in the dish washer or washed and put away, I could imagine many couples experiencing no conditioning towards repeating that behavior.
- zrail 5y agoYep. I regularly thank my partner for the work they do to keep the house running and they do the same back for me. It genuinely helps me feel more connected to them when we recognize and show appreciation for the things that could absolutely be considered automatic.