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I cant think of worse relationship advise than be with someone who never triggers a negative response in you.
by AlwaysRock 5y ago
I cant think of worse relationship advise than be with someone who never triggers a negative response in you.
- ay 5y agoSome people are into shibari. And some aren’t. And both are okay. Edit-add: also, I think “being with a person who never triggers a negative response in you” is just plain impossible. On some days I trigger a negative response with myself :-) But based on my limited experience of two 10+ years relationships, I can say life is so much easier and fun when you have less things to disagree about. But I also acknowledge that this is how I am wired - for some, fights are stimulating. Hence my initial reply with shibari. There exist rather interesting pathways to happiness.
- spadros 5y agoWhat? You want more negative experiences? That defines a good relationship for you? I can’t think of a better goal than to be with somebody so compatible that you have minimal friction and minimal issues.
- AlwaysRock 5y agoSure. Minimal. But if you rule people out for any amount of conflict then you will never be in a relationship long term. My wife and I do not argue often but it does happen.