I'm saying I think you're genderless, whereas by calling someone "he" I think you are saying you think they're male. Right. As it turns out, I identify as male

I'm saying I think you're genderless, whereas by calling someone "he" I think you are saying you think they're male. Right. As it turns out, I identify as male not genderless. But this is not something you are obligated to honor under threat of being fired for some reason.