Ah I understand - you’re commenting more on strategy around being able to get through to someone when a core value is in conflict with what may be true. Yeah,

Ah I understand - you’re commenting more on strategy around being able to get through to someone when a core value is in conflict with what may be true. Yeah, on that I agree - requires more deft communication skills. I think you can still “blame them” for holding false beliefs though (or phrased differently not give them a free pass on dogma) while still understanding it’s going to be an emotional thing for them, but this sounds like it might be us just disputing definitions over “blame” and we mostly agree.