I am friends with a couple where one is from Ukraine, and the other is from Moscow. Even though the Russian has been against the war since at least 2015, when

I am friends with a couple where one is from Ukraine, and the other is from Moscow. Even though the Russian has been against the war since at least 2015, when I first met him, I should totally cut my ties with him and actively try to sabotage his life because that's what I've been told by the good guys across the Atlantic because their actions are not self serving at all. Man, do I need moral guidance