People use names when they think you've been introduced or they've at least mentioned the mapping before. Sometimes you slip up and forget in both ways. In a

People use names when they think you've been introduced or they've at least mentioned the mapping before. Sometimes you slip up and forget in both ways. In a group setting, I think people skew towards using the name if anyone in the group has been introduced. So if you're on some Zoom call and you're the new person in the room, I wouldn't expect people to switch from names to pronouns for your benefit. Everyone else knows the mapping already and you just have to pick up these names from context.