> you don't tell your kids "we're all dying" I don't see any problem with being honest about life and death. And having hangups about this is not helpful in my

> you don't tell your kids "we're all dying" I don't see any problem with being honest about life and death. And having hangups about this is not helpful in my opinion. It's one of the areas where not lying is most important. What you need to be careful with is your approach, because if you just say "we're all dying" a 4 year old might panic because you haven't been very clear. It sounds immediate.