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That’s 30m of not helping with a one-year-old. That time is _precious_.
by Arubis 5y ago
That’s 30m of not helping with a one-year-old. That time is _precious_.
- notch656a 5y agoYeah 30m of extra 'me' time could easily mean the wife loses half her free time. That breeds a TON of marital problems and issues if you don't clear it. A 1 y/o is basically a time vacuum.
- 0des 5y agoApparently I'm the only one who enjoyed my time with baby and didn't find it to be work at all. If you aren't equipped to live for and love your child you should wait until you are in a better place to do so. It isn't some airborne illness, and babies aren't all universally a ball and shackle.
- Beltalowda 5y agoYou can both enjoy being with your child while also recognizing that it takes up a large amount of time and that there's other things in life that need to be done as well, such as getting a job to pay for that child's upbringing, education, etc.
- barry-cotter 5y agoYou can love your child without finding every moment with them a joy.
- Arubis 5y agoThis is incredibly judgmental, especially in a society that doesn’t enable people to “live for” their children. Kids are easy to love; the logistics of parenting are super challenging. Kudos to anyone who goes down this path and keeps finding their balance, whatever that may look like.
- notsureaboutpg 5y ago