be aware of that "my terms": be sure it is really "your" and you do not fell in somebody's else "terms": I mean, it is so easy to think you are doing what "you"

be aware of that "my terms": be sure it is really "your" and you do not fell in somebody's else "terms": I mean, it is so easy to think you are doing what "you" want while you are just obeying :) So, I would at the same time invest a log on how you choose: and I would add a "simplify" everywhere!