My advice. Focus on spending time with friends and family and helping others. Advice I'm not very good at taking myself. Let me add, "spending time with friend

My advice. Focus on spending time with friends and family and helping others. Advice I'm not very good at taking myself. Let me add, "spending time with friends" to me means "find a job where I like the people and want the hangout with them" so that I don't have some 8-10hrs a day of something I want to avoid. Those have been the best times in my life where going to work was fun because it was like hanging out with friends. Friends I would see outside of work as well. That work was also on small teams (< 30 people), on small projects where I had a lot of influence, to the point that the project felt like something I was helping to create and had some pride in how it turned out. In other words, not just a cog in a machine.