it's not so much about success with women, it's about having secure home and finances such that i don't have to worry about the future. getting married, having

it's not so much about success with women, it's about having secure home and finances such that i don't have to worry about the future. getting married, having kids, i could do it now, but i would be living as a renter, dependent on my job. i would not be able to sleep at night. i feel like my parents generation at least had the safety net of social welfare, but that is no longer there.