And yet at the time, we thought those systems were dumb. 'why do I have to run around looking for a group? Cant you just match me with one?' I think more gener

And yet at the time, we thought those systems were dumb. 'why do I have to run around looking for a group? Cant you just match me with one?' I think more generally, what we want at the time and what we remember years later are often different and sometimes even opposed.