No, that's not life. I (female) met my husband by striking up a conversation with him at a bar. I didn't (and don't) have any ulterior motive for starting that

No, that's not life. I (female) met my husband by striking up a conversation with him at a bar. I didn't (and don't) have any ulterior motive for starting that conversation. I didn't even want to date/fuck him when I started talking to him, just was being friendly. Sure, stay very vigilant about scams, cons, non-genuine people, manipulators, and attempts at recruitment, but it's simply not true that every single female stranger has ulterior motives.