> flag if you were open to canceling a plan, which your friend would only see if they also flagged it. I've had this idea for indicating along a series of step

> flag if you were open to canceling a plan, which your friend would only see if they also flagged it. I've had this idea for indicating along a series of steps of being willing to advance a relationship without harming it by expressing your desire for the next step too early for the other person. It would have real value I think because there really is potentially ruinous cost to being perceived as jumping the gun.