Yeah I was going to say there's a kind of metacorollary to this which is important to keep in mind: sometimes when someone is describing negative intent in othe

Yeah I was going to say there's a kind of metacorollary to this which is important to keep in mind: sometimes when someone is describing negative intent in others, it's accurate and genuine. They might not be hostile themselves, or pessimistic, or negativistic, they might actually be a victim of someone not acting in good faith. They may have positive intent in asking for help around negative intent.