Chances of this getting enough attention are low, but Ill bite. Everyone doesnt start from the same place. Some people have advantages, some people have disadv

Chances of this getting enough attention are low, but Ill bite. Everyone doesnt start from the same place. Some people have advantages, some people have disadvantages. The evaluation of either seems to be cultural for lots of situations but basically if you have more “resources” you’ll probably find greater success. The resources your parents provide are basically monetary, emotional, and value based. The first one is “easy” to do. But the last two are the ones that make the difference. Basically if you were denied something in life, and chose some adapting behaviour, that will follow you later into life. Didnt get any validation that your emotions were reasonable? Congrats you have a higher probability of being codependent. Didnt get any attention from a parental figure? Was it dependent on external things like winning awards? Youre probably in a wildly competive profession if youre competent. Basically your relationship with your parents when youre young is the defining relationship of your life. You can “fix” it later but it’s like sanding out grapejuice.