The post frames being avoidant as always being about not hurting someone else's feelings and I think that's almost never the case. It's usually juggling: - As

The post frames being avoidant as always being about not hurting someone else's feelings and I think that's almost never the case. It's usually juggling: - As a rule I usually end up happy I went to things in hindsight, even if I don't want to in the moment - Empirically, canceling even once on someone significantly reduced the odds of plans being remade - I want to see myself as the type of person who doesn't cancel plans