There is a tricky balancing act here. Detachment because you are at peace with yourself and untroubled by the vicissitudes of the world because they don't affec

There is a tricky balancing act here. Detachment because you are at peace with yourself and untroubled by the vicissitudes of the world because they don't affect who you are is good. Detachment because you are avoiding negative feelings that you aren't able to handle and process in a mature way isn't. Distinguishing those two can be very difficult and in practice it's often a mixture.