Not sure this is a perfect solution but in our house we let the kids pick one or two items that are “always yours”, everything else is considered communal and m

Not sure this is a perfect solution but in our house we let the kids pick one or two items that are “always yours”, everything else is considered communal and must be shared. It’s a framework to build on as they get older - some things are shared (toys) somethings are not (underwear, water bottles, Mom’s laptop). For what it’s worth we still have daily “not sharing” arguments…