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I find this very manipulative. You change the world to fit a person, who ends up consuming his circumstances. The whole point of growing as a personality is wan

I find this very manipulative. You change the world to fit a person, who ends up consuming his circumstances. The whole point of growing as a personality is wanting to grow and learn. People should know what their issues and blockades are, and put effort into it, so that they may teach others their findings and methods.

ordu 5y ago
Yes, it is very manipulative. It is the ethics issue I mentioned above. It can change your attitude to your partner in bad ways. It will lead to a disaster if your partner find out about the manipulation. > The whole point of growing as a personality is wanting to grow and learn. No it is not the whole point. I don't want to make all the chores myself also. I don't want to fight over chores, to make my partner to do some of them. Though I agree, it would be nice to find such a way, that doesn't have the ethics issues, and moreover not just train a partner to do chores, but makes him a better personality.