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I’d be interested in hearing about any experiences HN users have had with IFS. It was something I initially dismissed as sounding pretty woo, but I’ve been hear
by Trasmatta 5y ago
I’d be interested in hearing about any experiences HN users have had with IFS. It was something I initially dismissed as sounding pretty woo, but I’ve been hearing enough about it lately that I’ve been thinking it’s worth a second look, and considering trying it. It seems like it may have some potential to fill in some of the gaps that CBT + mindfulness + casual stoicism have fallen short on.
One concern I have is whether these “parts” are actually considered to be present in the mind prior to therapy, or if the therapy itself is what actually instantiates them. I definitely agree that the mind is a very complex mix of various mental structures, rather than one single cohesive “self”, but I don’t know if I yet buy this idea of discrete “subpersonalities”. I could see it potentially being a useful tool, though, for grouping and understanding your own behaviors and impulses with compassion. When I read some people’s experiences with IFS it almost sounds like they’re talking about tulpas, which makes me slightly nervous about the possibility for woo. But despite that, I can see the potential for it being a helpful model for approaching and trying to understand the complexities and contradictions of your own mind, from a place of compassion.
Any HN users had good or bad experiences with IFS?