This is spoken like it comes from someone who has never grieved, or even been close to someone who has. Maybe someone who has lost, but not someone who has grie

This is spoken like it comes from someone who has never grieved, or even been close to someone who has. Maybe someone who has lost, but not someone who has grieved. Learning to live with grief, integrating it as part of yourself, and eventually even living a thriving life, is in NO way "getting over grief." Grief becomes part of who you are. It doesn't go away. You don't get over it. It becomes part of you, and you integrate it, and it stops being as disruptive as it was immediately after the loss, but trying to "get over it" or believing most people do is almost dangerously naive.