There is no such thing as "getting over grief." You even allude to this yourself: "The grief is not over, maybe never will be." There's nothing unhealthy about

There is no such thing as "getting over grief." You even allude to this yourself: "The grief is not over, maybe never will be." There's nothing unhealthy about recognizing that. Grief isn't a thing to be "gotten over." It evolves and it changes, and you eventually will evolve and change along with it, but recognizing you won't ever get over it is an important step on the path to healing.