You may not complain, but you do observe that your experiences are different in a way that can sometimes be unpleasant. It appears that when another person rec

You may not complain, but you do observe that your experiences are different in a way that can sometimes be unpleasant. It appears that when another person recounted how their experiences are different in a way that can sometimes be unpleasant, you assumed that they were placing a burden on others to change for their benefit (or that they were entitled to it). I don't think that is a correct interpretation.