> The number one though seems to be the expectation to make it work instead of just giving up and moving on if things aren't perfect. Cultures that arrange mar

> The number one though seems to be the expectation to make it work instead of just giving up and moving on if things aren't perfect. Cultures that arrange marriages typically do not allow divorce. Even if we carry that comparison through, the marriages are normally arranged by family, people who have known you your whole life, and probably want you to not hate your spouse. Hiring via references from people that have worked together for a long time are much more useful than interviews and personality tests.