Reading some of the comments is making me double-down on this. A lot of it reads like “yes, finally, someone who understands that the problem isn’t me, it’s eve

Reading some of the comments is making me double-down on this. A lot of it reads like “yes, finally, someone who understands that the problem isn’t me, it’s everybody else”. Again, a lot of this stuff is subtle and I hesitate to paint with too broad a brush, but the real flag for me is not having the awareness to be like “look I know how this sounds but I really do think I was in the right”.