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> taking my mom’s car out for joy rides without permission, skipping class Those are all just "things that kids do", or they used to be some years ago, pretty
by paganel 5y ago
> taking my mom’s car out for joy rides without permission, skipping class
Those are all just "things that kids do", or they used to be some years ago, pretty sad that "skipping classes" has transformed into a "reckless" thing that risks getting you, as a kid, quasi-institutionalised.
- dillondoyle 5y agoThat was my reaction too. Especially if joy rides means a licensed kid taking the car without permission.
- Cthulhu_ 5y agoIt's not to be normalised though. I sorta-knew a kid like that (he ended up living at his grandma across from our street after his family fell apart due to marital reasons); he was also mid teens or so and went joyriding in her car. Which nobody would probably find out or care about, but he ended up parking it against a tree if you catch my drift. He was unharmed thankfully, but it could have ended badly. It might be "things that kids do", but it shouldn't be normalized or tolerated. Especially children, there's a lot of things that, until they can understand themselves, they need to be Told. How many things did you (dear reader) do growing up that, in hindsight, you think "wow that was stupid / reckless / I could've died"?
- paganel 5y agoI agree, but there's a difference between "needing to be told" and "institutionalising your kid" because of it.