I could reply to this for hours and wish you the best. I will say, I am in my 40s and so what I will share now is different than I would have 20 years ago and

I could reply to this for hours and wish you the best. I will say, I am in my 40s and so what I will share now is different than I would have 20 years ago and would probably share 20 from now but. - Self-improvement is a good thing to aspire to, improve the things that prevent you from having what you want. But realize there is a tax to this. - Own it. It's ok to be socially awkward and shy. There are jobs, lifestyles, communities and passions that suit those of us with these traits. No-one is happy being someone who they are not. So, even if you change the characteristics you currently have to get to a different place, know that it could ultimately make you less happy when you get there if you are not true to yourself.