Please google "future faking." It's a typical thing that people with narcissistic tendencies do. I don't know your situation or your girlfriend, of course, so I

Please google "future faking." It's a typical thing that people with narcissistic tendencies do. I don't know your situation or your girlfriend, of course, so I could be totally off-base. But the painful and avoidable situation you're in set off red flags in my mind. (I was in a long relationship with a narcissist and unfortunately had to learn all about their habits in order to figure out what was going on.)