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It depends on your goals. If your goals are to be popular and attractive, then, yeah, there's a very standard track for you; practice social interaction, learn
by 0xbadcafebee 5y ago
It depends on your goals. If your goals are to be popular and attractive, then, yeah, there's a very standard track for you; practice social interaction, learn various tricks, learn how to make yourself attractive (nice body, nice hair, nice clothes). But if your goal is to just feel comfortable around random people, then embrace the awkward. Don't be self-deprecating about it, but be "out" about being socially awkward. Tell people how you feel in the moment, and don't judge them for their reaction (lots of people just don't know what to do in non-standard social situations). If you want, exaggerate the voice, posture, etc. Make it fun. Be authentic/true to yourself.