Step outside your comfort zone. Also start attending these events by alternative crowd, do a yoga teacher training or do retreats in improv or yoga or whatever

Step outside your comfort zone. Also start attending these events by alternative crowd, do a yoga teacher training or do retreats in improv or yoga or whatever (this may be too expensive, in that case I recommend psychadelics or hitchhiking as a cheap way to break these walls). The key thing to remember is that when people look at you like you are taking up space and make you feel that you don't belong then you feel bad so DON'T DO THAT. Always strive to be someone who makes others feel like they are welcome and that they belong. That is how you would want to be treated after all.