Here’s what I did (would’ve been about 2009-2011, when I was late 20s/early 30s): • Say yes to every social invitation I received for a period of about 2 years

Here’s what I did (would’ve been about 2009-2011, when I was late 20s/early 30s): • Say yes to every social invitation I received for a period of about 2 years, whether it was something I thought would be fun or not — and never flake. Get to be known as a reliable person who is down for anything. • Set a goal of speaking to a person I didn’t know every day — could be as simple as “Hello” to a cashier at the grocery store, but I had to do it • Date more - went out on an average of 2 first dates a week (all found through OK Cupid). Just getting coffee, going to dinner, going to a movie, taking a walk — simple stuff with no pressure. Just meet another person, ask questions about their life, share about my own life. It was a very fun and life-changing experience.