My point is that for small scale for my uses the differences between these databases are mostly academic. I am fully confident in my ability to model data aroun

My point is that for small scale for my uses the differences between these databases are mostly academic. I am fully confident in my ability to model data around their various constraints and get them to do pretty much anything. I also understand why their HA functions differently. To be clear, there are projects that, governance/development community aside, hit all the right spots technology-wise for what what I'm looking for. These projects just seem to have far less healthy communities to me than others and I'm curious why that seems to be the case.