Professionally: Don't be afraid to jump jobs regardless of how scary that may be. You may have spent your 20s in a job where you've gotten comfortable and worke

Professionally: Don't be afraid to jump jobs regardless of how scary that may be. You may have spent your 20s in a job where you've gotten comfortable and worked your way up but you've hit the ceiling and you may find it hard to jump ship and advance your career because you're scared. Don't be. Make the jump. Personally: Be happy, proud, and confident no matter your situation. Don't sacrifice family time for your career. Make your bed. Clean your desk. When you feel stuck, overwhelmed or discouraged, you need a "win" and it's best to take an easy win like beating a video game or finish reading a book. Because you're approaching your 30s, you may find this advice tedious or nonsensical because you're just looking for a stack overflow answer that you can copypasta into your life that fixes everything or makes you rich. There's no magic pill or life hack that fixes your problems. Just be the best version of yourself and good things will come.