This exactly. My honeymoon photos (divorced now), photos of friends to whom I no longer speak, regardless of the circumstances... photos of pets that died, ex

This exactly. My honeymoon photos (divorced now), photos of friends to whom I no longer speak, regardless of the circumstances... photos of pets that died, ex girlfriends who you were sure was the one... all just add a pang of sadness to my day. Forgetting things is mercy. My best friend died about 10 years ago. She still has a facebook account because when you die suddenly you don't get to settle your affairs. At least a few times a year I'm reminded of my memories of her, or its her birthday. Or even just seeing how stupid I was and the dumb things I posted, is a bit painful :-) "No one ever takes a photograph of something they want to forget. The things you're most afraid of have already happened. The shutter is clicked. The flash goes off and they've stopped time, as if just for the blink of an eye." - Sy Parish One Hour Photo (2002)