This may not be the kind of approach you are wanting, but: Do you have to move? Can you give it more time? The list is written like the move is quite a perceptu

This may not be the kind of approach you are wanting, but: Do you have to move? Can you give it more time? The list is written like the move is quite a perceptual burden, and this is not to mention the actual incoming implementation-level pain. I'd at least want to know how long you have to make the decision, since the known factors you've listed A) are definitely known to you and B) aren't making enough difference to you, which often leaves blocks in the C) zone of emotions or other fuzzy perceptions which generally need time to clear. When those are resolved they usually provide a feeling more akin to specific encouragement or even something like permission / luck / definite answers / etc. Just some thoughts, hope it works out well no matter where you end up.