+1 to setting time and emotional boundaries. Lasted through way too many different design teams that all inevitably burnt out because the folks there (all very

+1 to setting time and emotional boundaries. Lasted through way too many different design teams that all inevitably burnt out because the folks there (all very kind, compassionate, talented people) weren't willing to make that a hill they were willing to die on. Earlier last week, used the metaphor of putting on your oxygen mask "first" in case of an airplane catastrophe, before putting on anyone else's mask, even your child's - think that's quite apt here.