Oh yeah you’re totally right on that. I guess what I mean is that I wouldn’t expect that friend to do deep research or be informed. Poking is the right word for

Oh yeah you’re totally right on that. I guess what I mean is that I wouldn’t expect that friend to do deep research or be informed. Poking is the right word for it because it’s harmless - they wouldn’t be obliged to know all the information to seriously scrutinize what I’m doing.