Not sure whether I'm helping or coming off unsensitive but this is what I understood a few years after I lost my grandfather: none of the memories I had with hi

Not sure whether I'm helping or coming off unsensitive but this is what I understood a few years after I lost my grandfather: none of the memories I had with him happened in the cemetery, this is only the place where his body had to be taken. Of course I still go once in a while, take care of the flowers. But his garden, his house, the good times happened there.