I cannot imagine the pain you're feeling. I'd just like to add to the other comments that you can also refuse the settlement and still not pursue litigation (th

I cannot imagine the pain you're feeling. I'd just like to add to the other comments that you can also refuse the settlement and still not pursue litigation (the latter will undoubtedly add additional stress). The advantage here is that you are not bound to any NDA and will be free to speak out about this your own terms, and in your own time. Especially if the money is insignificant to you. Ultimately, you should choose the way that will give the best opportunities for healing for both you are your family.