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When someone says "I feel your pain" in a sympathetic sounding voice, in regard to something that they play any part in (such as a boss who denies a raise), ask
by nonrandomstring 5y ago
When someone says "I feel your pain" in a sympathetic sounding voice,
in regard to something that they play any part in (such as a boss who
denies a raise), ask them "And how does that feel for you?" - watch
carefully for any micro gestures around the mouth and eyes that may be
a fleeting smile.
Couldn't read the paywalled paper and it seems not to be on SciHub
yet, so speaking only to the abstract; On methods; the problem with
LPA is that, since your not testing against model features, you can
posit the existence of any trait combination within your psychometric
space, and hunt hard enough you'll find something that looks like an
example.
That said: Yes these people exist. Its the classic "troll" profile,
who delights in other people's misfortune and suffering. Empathy is
absolutely core to this. Supply wouldn't work if they couldn't feel
the other's pain.
When you think about it there are worse trait combinations than the
common-or-garden psychopath. Proper therapeutic training requires you
go through years of therapy yourself, part of which is designed to
weed out "empathic tourists".