> I'm not the one who is hurt by you having these attitudes But you are tangibly hurt by systemic discrimination. Otherwise qualified people give up their care

> I'm not the one who is hurt by you having these attitudes But you are tangibly hurt by systemic discrimination. Otherwise qualified people give up their career choice to avoid harassment or because of inequitable salary. Then we are left with less qualified and motivated people staffed in important positions. Your work, health, or other aspect of your life are affected, just not in ways you can easily see or measure.