Join (from the part of the developer) idealistic goals, rose tinted glasses, naiveté, with (from the part of the users/contributors) lack of respect, lack of pr

Join (from the part of the developer) idealistic goals, rose tinted glasses, naiveté, with (from the part of the users/contributors) lack of respect, lack of project visibility, lack of tact in dealing with OSS maintainers, sometimes lack of technical prowess and too much initiative, and the environment is set for conflict. No wonder most people give up.