It's funny, because I think I have pretty much the opposite expectation. When I encounter a new open source project it means that I can make it better by provi

It's funny, because I think I have pretty much the opposite expectation. When I encounter a new open source project it means that I can make it better by providing pull requests with new features, or fixing bugs. And then everyone benefits. If they choose to listen to me that's fine, but that's the icing on the cake, not the main course.